When you're torn between a "safe and secure relationship" and a "passionate and exciting relationship" ...which one you should choose?
Dear confused Cathy,
I guess you are still a little girl and can't tell the difference of a come on and something that is real. You should choose the young man who is stable and reliable. Does he have a career - a job - a future. You will find that if he has all that and shows you respect he will be THE ONE. The young man who is so passionate and nothing else remember that when the passion runs out nothing but ice will be left and who wants to be cold when the fire burns out?
Nuff said???? Good luck.
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