Dear Bubby,
I have a friend who thinks she's very attractive and that everyone is in love with her. However I know for a fact that none of these people like her. She's pretty but not as pretty as she thinks she is. What should I do? It needs to be subtle.
Sincerely,
Confused
Dear Confused,
I should know a little more about this girl who thinks that she is the prettiest and you say "not quite the prettiest" but pretty. Being pretty is in the eyes of the beholder and if people regard her as pretty, so what? I would judge a person the way I look at that person and let it go at that. I'm sure that people look at you and know that you are a pretty girl and I am sure you are. Let this girl dream of being pretty and you can know that you are pretty. It is more important to be pretty on the inside because that is what shines out and will really impress people. I would say, Be Yourself and everyone will love you.
I can see your smiling face right now. Be happy.
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