HELP! I am desperately in love with a man and I don't know if he feels the same way about me.
We met through a mutual acquaintance long distance. Although we have only met face to face twice, I think he may be The One. My problem is that although he has said that he is in love with me, and is willing to move closer to be with me, I doubt his sincerity.
How can I know for sure?
Confused in Tennessee
Dear Confused in Tennessee,
After only two meetings I can understand your situation. You don't even know this man. Wait until you have met him another ten times and see what he is like. I know that there can be love at first sight but you must test that to see if you are right or wrong. After the testing period and it turns out right - you will have a happy future.
However, if you find that all this was a pipe dream, you must forget about this person and be glad of it. Don't rush into your future without a lot of thought. Make sure it will be heaven and not that "dark place".
BEWARE OF ROMANS BEARING GIFTS.
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