Dear Bubby,
I just saw your blog and found it very interesting and kind.
I have been unhappy with the fact that my boyfriend does not seem interested in reading my blog. It is important to me because I take my writing ambitions seriously but he seems clearly disinterested.
We have talked about it before but I can see that the level of interest is not what I expect from someone close to me.
It may sound silly, but for what it's worth, it's important. How do I resolve this in me?
Yours sincerely,
Disenchanted
Dear Disenchanted,
What kind of a boyfriend do you have? He should be interested in you and everything you do and say. How would he feel if you ignored the things he says and does?
If he was my boyfriend I would put it to him straight - Are you with me or against me? If "yes" - then be interested in me and everything I do and say just as I am interested in everything you do and say. If the answer is "no" I think we should have a very important "talk". Then see what he has to say. You will know from his answer if this relationship should go on.
Be a winner.
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