I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 weeks. It's been great. But just recently my boyfriend asked if I thought that his close friend fancied me. I replied no. Then he asked if I fancied his friend. I replied no.
This has really bothering me. Why would it?????
Please help -- I'm only 12!
Four weeks? And he wants to know if you like his friend? And visa versa? Has anything happened between you and the friend? In four weeks you could hardly know him or his friend.
If I were you I would tell him to wait until you know them both much better and then you will have an answer for him. Who knows, another boy will come along and you will like him much better than these two.
You get to know people by spending time with them - school, lunches, walks, movies, etc, and just have fun.
Best of luck and keep smiling.
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