Hi. I'm 13. I want a really hot boyfriend. I don't think I'm beautiful and all the guys like my older sister. I really want to get all the guys to like me and ask me out and stuff, you know. Please help.
Dear Girlie 13,
At 13 you are still a "KID" and I would not think about having a boyfriend to love and "you know what". Just enjoy all the girls and boys who are your age.
You don't tell me how old your sister is so I cannot comment on her relationship with boys. But you are not her -- you are you. Have you discussed this desire with your Mother?? And what was her answer?
At your age the best thing you can do is -- you should be applying yourself to your classes and just having fun with your girl friends and boy friends. Take care of your appearance and as you grow older the boys will surely notice you.
Let life do its job and you enjoy every minute of 13 and on.
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u are beautifull wait for the rigth guy
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