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I got a boyfriend again... the same one! I like him a lot and I want to hear his voice and I know he wants the same! But when we sit next to each other or if we call each other it is, "Hi, how's your day been going?" and after that we get all nervous and silly around each other.
I was wondering, what do I say to him? I like him a lot and he likes me too but we get all funny sounding around each other and then sometimes I will give him every detail about what's going on! Scary, huh? (haha)
Well if you have a solution or a request let me know.
P.S. I am only 14 so if you can give me a solution pleaz dont tell me to talk about gooshy stuff!!!!
At fourteen or fifteen a boy is not as mature as a girl. He can talk better to a boy than to a girl. So when you talk to him, talk about things that will interest him and you will get responses and he will feel comfortable. If he is interested in sports, talk sports. If he is interested in one of his subjects - talk subjects - or anything that is of interest to him.
Before you know it he will have a lot to say. If he calls you, he is interested in you but gets tongue tied.
At the same time, befriend other boys. At 14, you should have many friends among girls and boys.
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