Dear Bubby,
I just came across your website while doing a yahoo search. I am 24 years old, married and have one beautiful child. I recently learned I was pregnant with a second child only to have had a miscarriage two days later. This breaks my heart. I can't stop being sad. My husband says we can try again but I feel like a part of me had died.
I feel like I have this secret that know one knows and I can't tell anyone. I find myself crying when I am alone at every moment even while writing this email. So my question to you is, when will the tears stop flowing?
From,
Tearful
Dear Flowing Tears,
I am sorry you lost this last pregnancy but it was only a few days. Be happy that your loss was in the earliest days and if anything was to happen you are past that. You will be well and try again.
I know many women go through the some thing. Spend more time with the baby that you do have, enjoy and get well and let life go along normally. I would suggest you visit your doctor, get a good checkup and you will be fine.
Get Well.
0 OPINIONS ADDED
"Help Me, Bubby!" Disclaimer
By submitting a letter to this website, you grant Help Me, Bubby! permission to publish it on this site or elsewhere
including print publications. Your letter will only include an anonymous signature that you provide or that we use to
substitute for your real name. Your email address will never be included or distributed. Due to the large number of
letters received, there is no guarantee that a letter will be responded to. Any information or advice given at
Help Me, Bubby! is not intended to provide an alternative to professional medical treatment or to replace the advice
or services of a physician or psychiatrist. Neither Bubby nor her granddaughters are professional therapists or medical
experts. If you have any serious medical or mental problem, please consult a professional. Although all this advice is
offered lovingly from the heart and in good spirit, we are not responsible in any way for your decision to accept or
reject the advice or the results thereafter.