I don't know what's wrong with me. My life is going great. I have good friends, my grades are good and I have a boyfriend who really cares for me. But I'm not happy.
I want to break up with my boyfriend but his last girlfriend really hurt him when she broke up with him. I don't want to hurt him but I feel I have to end it. What do I do?
Sad and Confused
Dear Sad and Confused,
If you want to break up with this current boyfriend it is very simple. Just tell him you are calling your relations with him over. Tell him that you are too young to tie yourself down and you want to meet other boys.
He may be unhappy but I think that when he thinks it over he will understand that it is the best for both of you. True, he may not like it, but you have to think of yourself.
So take the plunge.
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