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Please help me! I am in love with a wonderful guy who has two kids. A 1-year old boy and a 2.5-year old girl. I love them, that's not the problem. The problem is, what should they call me when we get married? They have a mom who they still see and whom they love. The problem is what should they call me? I want it to be P.C and something they can say. But NOT ANOTHER WORD FOR MOM!!!
See what I'm going through? Thanx Bubby! Can't wait to hear what you have to say.
The children should not call you Mom or anything like it. But, they can be taught to call you either by your given name or Auntie and your name. But in all probability, as they get older, they will come up with their own version. So just love them and they will come up with a name of their own.
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get my advice, don't try to marry with this man.because he eventually will forget you as he has forgoten his ex-wife.
according to some psychological statistics such children hate from their second dady's wife and sometimes it hurts both children and second wife and this results in
quarrel, unfriendly atmosphere in home...because childten like thier mom and and also wish their father be loyal and kind with thier mom.so try not to be selfish and think about his kids and also your future!
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