I have a big big problem.
I go to school and at the start of the 1st year everything was OK. I made a best friend. But then in the 2nd year she fell out with me and has now got everyone in my class to hate me. They bully me all the time and she even has bad stuff on her website about me.
I cry ever morning when I have to go to this school. And I have told my dad. He told the head teacher but still nothing has happened.
sad 13 year old girl
Dear sad 13 year old girl,
I know just how you feel. If this "out girl friend" is saying bad things about you, why don't you talk it over with her and find out what she has against you and try to straighten it all out.
If she tells lies about you, ask your father to speak to her father to stop these untruths. This is a free country and we all speak out for our rights. I am sure the girl's father knows nothing of what is going on. And I am just as sure that the two fathers can straighten things out. They might even ask the two of you to be present.
Try it. If it does not work out - forget about her and find new friends. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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