Hello Bubby,
I am a 24 year old man from England. I don't know why I'm writing this to you but it seems easier to talk to a machine than real people.
I'm going through a rough patch at the moment. A relationship I have been in for six years is coming to an end and I'm scared about the future. I know I could try and talk my partner into keeping us alive but I know in my heart she isn't in love with me anymore.
I'm scared about going out in to the world alone, I have to rearrange my life to cope on my own and I'm feeling useless. I don't think anyone can help me with this but thanks for listening.
Sad Guy
Dear Sad Guy,
I am sorry to hear that you know that you and your partner's relationship is turning cold. First of all, you do not tell me if the partner is male or female but that does not matter. If the result is negative, just know that all good things end at some time or another.
Say, "SO LONG, GOOD LUCK" and find new friends. It may take some time but you will find many. I hope you do.
Good Luck,
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if she doesn't like being with you first of all try to know what is
the problem which prevents her to love you. if the problem between you and your partner is not so serious try to discuss it and eliminate the misconceptions between you and her. then you will see that everything will be as usuall and you will feel much better and enjoy together once more again.
but if you find that under no circumstance you cannot make better anything give up to try to convince her and break up with her and try to clear your mind of all past expriences. beause continuing such a relationship jus. I know at first it will be hard to you but believe you can young and there are some upportunities ahead of you and you are not suppose to be alone.
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if she doesn't like being with you first of all try to know what is
the problem which prevents her to love you. if the problem between you and your partner is not so serious try to discuss it and eliminate the misconceptions between you and her. then you will see that everything will be as usuall and you will feel much better and enjoy together once more again.
but if you find that under no circumstance you cannot make better anything give up to try to convince her and break up with her and try to clear your mind of all past expriences. beause continuing such a relationship just hurts you more and more without any positive result. I know at first it will be hard to you but believe you can young and there are some upportunities ahead of you and you are not suppose to be alone.
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