In July of 2006, we received a letter from a 29-year old woman with a broken heart. And this wasn't the first time she had to pick up the pieces.
She and her fiance were supposed to be married in 2005, but he called it off and they parted ways. 6 months later he found his way back to her, begged for forgiveness, re-proposed, and she accepted. A few months went by and he called off the wedding again. But of course he kept her dangling and her hopes for a third reunion remained high.
When you hear a story like this, you want to yell from the rooftops, "FORGET HIM!" But as we all know, the heart can be hard-of-hearing sometimes. And this girl needed some advice. Leave it to Bubby to set things straight.
Bubby wasted no time referring to this man as an "immature fellow." She wrote, "I recommend you forget him and if he calls, just tell him the party is over... There are many fish in the sea and I am sure there is one who is looking for you... Life with this person will never happen. I wish you all the happiness in the world."
Even an anonymous commenter left a note saying: "Bubby's quite right. If he breaks it off once, and comes back, and all's well, fine. We all make mistakes, and we all have doubts. If he breaks it off twice?! Run, and never look back."
There is nothing we love more at this website than an update letter with a happy ending. So we are pleased to report that nearly 3 years to the date of this original posting, we heard from this woman again.
What do you think happened? Did he finally grow a pair? Did she learn her lesson? Did she take Bubby's advice?" Read on to find out...
I wanted to write to up-date you and to thank you for the very good advice you gave me some three years ago now. My then fiance had called off our wedding for the second time and I was so distressed. You said I should forget this immature person who had wasted so much of my time.
I took your advice and it really really worked out! After deciding to end all contact with my ex-fiance, I worked hard on my career and found a fantastic new job. The very first month I met a colleague in another department and, in time, we fell in love. We married last year and are now expecting our first child.
With my ex, everything was difficult. With my now husband, everything is easy - we can really talk and he is so kind, fun and gentle. And, he was, from the beginning, absolutely sure about me. He is also supportive of my career as we work in the same field, something my ex never was. Really, he just cares deeply about my happiness and I couldn't imagine that I could ever love someone as much as I love him.
I never would have found this wonderful man if I hadn't taken your advice.
Anyway, just to thank you. Writing to you and receiving your sensible response was a great comfort to me then, and I am so grateful I listened to your wisdom.
Wishing you and your family every happiness,
No longer 'Heart-broken all over again.'
xo, the granddaughters and
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I am Enrique S Gordula 36 yr old born on March 10,1973 Siniloan Laguna Philippines .
I am a Registered Mechanical Engineer here in PI but sad to say I am not as successful
As with other people though I had achieved of becoming an Engineer I was not blessed
With a good job and as of this very day I am still unemployed ,whatever effort I did
I still don’t get the job related with my education and I am afraid I could no longer use
My knowledge because I am getting older and older; my age is not on my side I wonder
Why am i having this kind of situation which sometimes I thought of having been forsaken,
I don’t know what is happening with my life , will you please give me an advice on what to
to or how to do it to get rid all of these bad luck and karma.
Want to hear from you soon……
Thank you very much,
Enrique S. Gordula
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By 5:00 AM, at
what a wonderful story that ends in happiness. i wish mine will get there soon.
What do I do if I'm scared of real paranormal activity and not the movies?
By 12:08 AM, at
I'm so alone. I block my self off from the world. I don't no why, but I just want a companion. Help me help myself
By 8:31 AM, at
You guys present there are performing an excellent job. 12 week mastery review
Hope you always have a fullfiling live, even if you really are a grandma :)
have a nice day
I was amazed at how deeply you feel about someone.
Hope you are always blessed, bubby
god bless you, bubby
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